This Christmas

28. December 2009 by admin.

On Wednesday, December 16th, one of our therapists approached me to update on several of her cases. We discussed one particular young child who was about to be discharged. She indicated that his funding had expired and negotiations with the referral source were unsuccessful. In addition, this young child could not, for whatever reasons, return to his home. The CBRYC treatment team recommended he be placed in a step-down level of care. The therapist received notice that there were no available beds in any of the potential receiving facilities. His referring Colorado County decided it best to place this young child in a juvenile detention center over the Christmas Holidays until a receiving bed could be found. CBRYC offered the County an absurdly reduced daily rate, in order to keep this young child here until such time as a more appropriate facility could be found. We certainly expected them to jump at this offer and felt this was certainly more appropriate and humane than sending him to a juvenile jail for Christmas. The County replied they would not fund anything. Thereafter, we contacted the mother of this child. She was very distraught. We offered her an even more reduced rate, if she would like her child to remain with us over the holidays. She was extremely pleased and very emotional. Keeping in mind, I had never met this young child; my day quickly progressed into the usual things that occupy my time. Sometime later a young child came to the office waiting room and shyly asked for me. I went to him and introduced myself. I remember he grabbed the sleeve of my jacket as if to make sure he got my attention. He timidly gave me his name and said he was the one who was about to be placed in detention. His eyes opened up and he said thank you and that he really wanted to stay at CBRYC over the holidays. He said this was the best Christmas present he had ever received. He went on to say, “My mom cried.” We exchanged pleasantries and I told him I was so happy he could be with us. I told him I would look for him at the Holiday party on Friday evening. As he smiled, his deep dark eyes locked with mine. Later that evening, as I pondered the day’s events and remembered the deep dark eyes of that child, I heard a song that suddenly meant so much more to me.

“Away in a manger, No crib for His bed, the little Lord Jesus laid down His sweet head…….
Bless all the dear children in Thy tender care,
And take us to heaven - to live with Thee there.”

As with the last 50 years and for the next 50 years, at CBRYC our “children” will never be an economic burden or an “accepted causality” – but indeed our most precious gift.

Martin Masar
Executive Director

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